A Memory

It is odd some of the things I think about or remember while I am doing my daily exercise routine. Recently I recalled a morning that I thought Tim had not heard his alarm and was late getting up. I went to his door which was slightly ajar and lightly pushed it open. There was Tim kneeling beside his bed in prayer. Awe filled me. My son had rolled out of bed on his knees. I don't know what made me recall that moment, but those same feelings filled me as I walked home. Even now, sharing that quiet moment with you, it is the same. So what does it mean? I could say what a good boy I have or I am so proud of him (all of which are true) but I think the memory filled my mind for a greater purpose. It reminded me to humbly kneel before my day begins, to open my heart to be taught and inspired. It reminded me that I am not alone and I needed to put away my pride and "I can do it on my own" mentality. This is something I've personally struggled with my whole life. Prayer for me has been the last resort rather than the first line of defense. I think life does that to us. There is school and children and jobs and worries and any number of other perplexing thoughts that control our day. We plod along until wham bang!!!! something humbles us and we remember to turn to God once more.
We may not be able to roll out of bed on our knees. It may take all we have just to get out of bed, get dressed. You might have to start as you open your eyes. "O.K. Heavenly Father, the day begins. I love you. Will you bless me today?"  Don't have time then? There is always the shower or the drive to school or any number of times throughout the day to "roll out of bed" and humbly pray. My desire is to begin my day with prayer. I invite you to do the same.
         Follow this scripture chain which reminds us what we must do and what we will recieve when we pray. Before you begin ask, "Am I unbelieving when I read?
3 Nephi 11:5
D&C 136:32
D&C 32:4
Mosiah 26:3
John 14:26

The New Year

Shame on us. We skipped Decembers blog and dad had a great idea too! We'll save it for next year. (Hope he remembers) Anyway, I wanted to recommend some reading material and I hope you make time to check it out.
1. Elder D. Todd Christofferson's article entitled Recognizing God's Hand in our Daily Lives in the January Ensign. I loved his insite into the Lord's Prayer and how it is applicable in every area of our lives. It would be easy to simplify some of the concepts for FHE.
2. Elder Henry B. Eyring's article Do Not Delay published in 1999. His talk although about repentance and forgiveness, can help us in other ways too.
I know what may touch me may not mean anything to others. Either way both talks are great.
Movies worth seeing: Amazing Grace, 17 Miracles
And last we loved, loved, loved seeing all of you over the Holidays and we are already planning trips to visit soon.

The Big G

  Why are we commanded to be grateful? Besides the obvious answers, it's a commandment, we should appreciate what's around us, etc. , something much deeper and long lasting should be considered. Being grateful keeps us safe. What does it keep us protected from? One day as I was studying about gratitude I came across this verse in D & C 46:7 which suggests that being thankful keeps us safe from being "seduced by evil spirits, or doctrines or devils, or the commandments of men; for some are of men and others of devils." All of a sudden the reason to be grateful made sense, it had a purpose.  As we observe what's around us and the many influences that crowd our thinking and actions, it is apparent that gratitude is far down on the list of things we contemplate each day because we give place to those "doctrines" of which the scripture mentions.                                           So how does being thankful keep us safe? Gratitude helps us to be less self-centered. It helps us see our surroundings with perspective. It helps our thinking patterns. We are less apt to judge or find fault or dwell on the negative. Our appreciation for God and one another is magnified. We are able to see past the foibles that each of us carry as well as readily offer forgiveness, with compassion, tenderness, and charity.
Gratitude is a choice. Elder Uchtdorf in the last General Relief Society Conference talked about a flower, the tiny forget-me-not. He likened it to happiness that is often forgotten in our quest for the big and flashy, like a rose. "...if we spend our days waiting for the fabulous roses, we could miss the beauty and wonder of the tiny forget-me-nots that are all around us...The happiest people I know...are those who, while in pursuit of worthy goals, discover and treasure the beauty and sweetness of the everyday moments. They are the ones who, thread by daily thread, weave a tapestry of gratitude and wonder throughout their lives. These are they who are truly happy."
So last of all cultivating this quality, and yes character trait, helps us to be happy.
I like to know why I need to be grateful and now I do. It keeps me safe from the evil influences of the world. It helps me to truly see. I think better. It helps me to be less judgemental and more charitable. It helps me to be happy.

Messages from Home

So today during church I had an idea come to me. I realized that we needed a better way to stay in contact with our family. Dad and I discussed how to go about it, hence, the creation of Archie's Hangout (dad's idea). This is a place where we want to share spiritual thoughts- our contribution to Family Home Evening's, things we've been thinking about, share what's funny, (well, to us). Who else would name a blog Archie's Hangout except your dad! We want to parent and grandparent! We hope you will check up on Archie's Hangout with your family.